Alpha Male Status
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Introduction

Alpha Male:
1.) The dominant male.
2.) The leader of the pack

Every man is meant to be what is known as THE “alpha male”. The word “the” precedes “alpha male” because there can be only one: YOU. Becoming the alpha male is simply the act of mastering yourself, your body, your mind, and your soul. Alpha male status does not discriminate against height, weight, sexual orientation, or anything else. The bad news: not every man is the alpha male. The good news: if you have a penis, you have the potential to become the alpha male. The best part about becoming the alpha male is not the end result of reaching your potential as a human being; it’s the journey that takes place during the transformation into the alpha male. For some, transitioning to alpha male status is a very natural process. For others, it will take a conscious and focused effort. In either case, once you start on the path to become the alpha male, you will become addicted to the small, steady improvements that you notice in yourself, which will drive you to take the path further. It doesn’t matter where you came from and it doesn’t matter where you are in life, the only thing that matters is where you’re going. It doesn’t matter who you were or who you are, the only thing that matters is who you want to be. As long as you have air in your lungs, then you can reach the destination. 

Control and Authority

You must be able to distinguish between what you have control over, and what you do not. The same goes for authority. Control is the alpha male’s power that he has over himself and others, implicit or explicit. Authority is his explicit right to enact control. The alpha male can’t have control unless he has authority first. Luckily, everyone has authority over themselves. Authority is the most important asset to an alpha male neophyte. The more alpha male training endured, the more the alpha male learns about making the most of his authority. The alpha male uses authority to establish control. At one extreme, the alpha male believes himself to have much more control than he actually has. At the other extreme, the non-alpha male believes he has much less control than he actually has. In the reality that is our dynamic and ever-changing world, your control can vary depending on various situations that arise. But, no matter what, the alpha male always has control over himself, his thoughts, and most importantly, his words and actions (barring extreme circumstances). At this point in the alpha male training, it doesn’t matter where you think you fall on the spectrum of control. The first thing the alpha male neophyte understands is that he has the authority to begin the journey to alpha male status. Once the alpha male absorbs that realization, he can begin to steadily increase the amount of control he enacts over his own life. The more control the alpha male has over his own life, the more successful he will be in virtually all areas of his life and his interactions with his environment.

Energy
 
Energy is everywhere and is everything. It cannot be created, nor destroyed, only transformed. The alpha male is like an energy filter, taking in all kinds of energy, both good and bad, and outputting positive energy. The amount of effort and energy you put into anything will show itself in the end result. In most situations in life, you get out what you put in. A given situation is whatever you make of it. Garbage in, garbage out. If you plant ice, you harvest wind. And so on. The alpha male leverages this universal knowledge to achieve success by using his control and authority over his body, mind, and soul to make a situation better, or simply to create positive energy. The alpha male knows, either consciously or otherwise, that the more he uses his control and authority in a given situation, the more positive energy he will spit out as an end result, which will in turn attract more positive energy to be taken in, increasing the alpha male’s authority and control, and repeat. At the end of each cycle, the alpha male neophyte is one step closer to alpha male status. Another way of thinking of the energy cycle in relation to alpha male training is like an avalanche. It starts slowly, gradually builds size and momentum, and eventually becomes an unstoppable force. Similarly, the alpha male neophyte starts “somewhere”, grows bigger as a person and gains more momentum with each energy cycle he completes, and becomes the unstoppable force able to succeed through use of control and authority.

Problems

There is no such thing as a problem too big. Only people too small. Everybody has problems and many people share the same problems. When the alpha male is faced with a problem, he exerts his control and authority to find a solution. When the alpha male is unable to find a solution, chances are the problem is out of his control, which is in itself a problem. From here, the alpha male will decide either to expand his circle of control and authority by completing the needed energy cycles or he will decide to accept the fact that he has inadequate control and authority in that particular domain. The main thing is that in order to achieve alpha male status, a decision must be made. Simply ignoring a problem will only cause the alpha male neophyte to complete more energy cycles somewhere in the future and impair his ability to grow in the meantime. In general, the alpha male handles his problems swiftly are forcefully as they arise. As the alpha male neophyte travels his path and grows his body, mind, and soul, the problems he faces will become gradually tougher to the average man.

Attitude

Whether you think you can or you cannot, you’re usually right. Attitude is everything. While on your journey to alpha male status, you have to realize that you are doing something totally natural, achievable, and good. You deserve to be an alpha male and enjoy all the benefits that come along with it. “Alpha male” doesn’t have to be synonymous with “asshole”, but it can be. Remember from the Energy unit: alpha male status is what you make of it. That being said, if absolute control and authority is the destination, the road is filled with energy and problems, then attitude is the vehicle. The alpha male neophyte is to realize that he is on a journey that no person or thing has the authority to interfere with. He needs to realize that he has the power to squash any interference that arises like a bug on the windshield. He needs to believe that he is the biggest, baddest, toughest alpha male alive, because the truth of the matter is that he IS. Remember, there is ONLY ONE alpha male, you. Attitude is dictated by respect. Respect for yourself, the respect you show others, and the respect others show you. The alpha male is only nice to people that deserve it. By disrespecting the alpha male you are challenging him and he will put you in your place, one way or another. Because he believes he is the biggest, baddest, and toughest, he knows no fear of would-be challengers.

Fear
 
Fear is a powerful ally to the alpha male. Feeling fear means that some energy you took in caused you to have thoughts, which led to emotion, which leads to a decision to take action or not. Fear directly challenges the alpha male’s control and authority. It says to the alpha male, frankly, “I have the power over you and there’s nothing you can do about it.” The alpha male refuses to believe this story. He uses fear to his advantage because he knows that no matter how difficult or scary it may be, the end result of dealing with his fear will be an increase to his control and authority. Every time the alpha male feels fear he sees it as an opportunity. It’s an opportunity to grow that otherwise may have taken many energy cycles to achieve the same growth. Fear, not genetics or personality, is the main reason why so many have not yet achieved alpha male status, whether or not they realize it. They are afraid of being an alpha male because they are afraid of success. They are afraid of the responsibility that success entails. This is great! The alpha male neophyte must allow this realization to absorb and also see why this fear is amazing and a powerful ally. If attitude is the driving vehicle on your alpha male journey, then fear is the fuel in the tank.

Resources

The alpha male is the first to kill or the first to die. He is the first to eat and the first to fornicate. He is the leader of the pack. Nice guys finish last is an inaccurate adage. It should read non-alpha males finish last. The alpha male finishes first or dies trying. And it is possible for the alpha male to be a nice guy. As leader of the pack, since the beginning of time, the alpha male’s job has been to acquire as many resources as possible for his tribe. In the past, this meant things such as food or clean water, land, wood, weapons, etc. Nowadays there are two resources the alpha male must strive to acquire: money and people. He must have control and authority over as much of these resources as possible. That is the alpha male’s purpose for being. He gathers resources that he in turn provides to his pack, or his people, saving the most for his family, ensuring that they will not only survive, but thrive. Resources are the oil in the vehicle that takes the alpha male neophyte on his journey, because resources keep things running smoothly. The alpha male acquires hard-to-get resources through firm, aggressive behavior.

Aggression

This is the name of the game. The more aggressive the alpha male is, the more resources he is able to gather. The more resources he obtains, the more alpha he becomes, and the closer he comes to reaching his peak potential. In all situations, the alpha male is the aggressor, applying force in the form of thoughts, words, and actions to reach some goal state. The alpha male does not yield to aggression thrown in his direction, but instead filters this incoming energy and outputs aggression in return. The alpha male does whatever it takes and never hesitates to succeed when he is faced with an obstacle. Instead, he “kills” the obstacle using aggression. He does not allow the authority and control of others affect his decisions or desired outcomes. If fear is the fuel, and resources are the oil, then aggression is the exhaust. It is the by-product of everything (thoughts and feelings) that the alpha male spits out into the world. It enables him to achieve things that he never dreamed possible. It lets the world know that the alpha male is serious and he’s willing to see things through to the end in order to get what he wants. Generally, the world responds to the alpha male’s aggression, further illuminating his path to greater control and authority, acquisition of resources, and positive relations between him and his pack. People depend on the alpha male to be the front-runner, the most aggressive, and the leader.

Leadership
 
The alpha male is in charge and wouldn’t have it any other way. He is responsible for decisions that impact the entire pack. He has the confidence that his choices as pack leader will achieve and possibly surpass the desired goal state. He makes decisions that he believes are right given the circumstances and stands by them regardless of the outcomes they produce. He commands the respect of his tribe. He acts independently when necessary and never loses sight of the goal of attaining more control and authority. He has the vision that allows him to see the goal state, the determination and resources to make it reality, and the aggression required to handle problems as they arise. The alpha male does not put his pack in harm’s way unless utterly necessary. In which cases, he is there on the front lines fighting and clawing his way to success. Leadership is the steering wheel in the vehicle of attitude. It is what guides the alpha male neophyte along his path.

Journey

The alpha male neophyte by now should have a greater understanding of the journey he has begun. He has started the noble journey to becoming a full-fledged, successful, alpha male. Given this information, he now has the tools and knowledge needed to successfully complete the journey and arrive at the destination of supreme control and authority. The idea is that the alpha male neophyte will grow as a person each step of his journey. The more he grows, the more confidence he will obtain and the more he will exhibit aggressive leadership behavior, enabling him to tackle larger and more important challenges. In other words, the more he masters himself, the more he will be able to master his surrounding environment and the more he will be respected and depended on by others. This self-mastery is possible for all men, regardless of their past or current standing, by strengthening the body, mind, and soul.

Warrior

The alpha male is like a soldier. He is constantly fighting to achieve peak potential. As such, he must have the physique of a warrior. He is as hard on the outside that he is on the inside. As pack leader, he must be tough and physically superior to all would-be challengers, internal or external. There is no room for weakness in the alpha male persona. The alpha male first must nourish himself sufficiently. His body is like a machine, taking in good food and water, and using the resulting energy to transform his body into that of a hunter. In the past, it was incredibly important for the alpha male to be in the best possible physical condition, given the harsh environment and difficult actions needed to gather resources. The alpha male is “lean and mean” able to handle any physical threat that seeks to challenge him.